Life is a very pure phenomenon itself and anything even close to minor toxic matter leaves its scar, may it be physical, emotional, financial, or spiritual. Sometimes, the toxicity even proves fatal for humans. Getting rid of the toxic matter is the only way to remain in a state of well being. The toxic matter here is people.
Life is full of ups and downs, we are going to fail and loose. We have to accept all the toxic outcomes of our fate as it is not in our control. But we can surely choose people who we are surrounded to, except parents of course. It is very important to choose people wisely and if ever we let those toxic beings ruin our lives, we should have the courage to throw them out without any hesitation.
In this wild race of humans running behind things that make them reliable to the overrated society, we all need people who will make us believe in ourselves. We require people who will love and admire the way we are, with all the flaws and talents. It is very necessary to surround ourselves with great minds, willing to support us in hard times, and dance in the joyful ones. The people who make you feel the worth of your soul and understand the perspective of your thoughts are the ones who are allowed to have reserved space in your life. The qualities of people deserving of a spot in your life are supportive, loyal, kind, encouraging, defensive, apologetic. The one who does not get jealous of your success, who will give you backhanded compliments, who will not play victim unnecessarily, who will not manipulate you, who is not self-centered, arrogant, mean, and judgemental. People who possess the above-mentioned traits are the ones you should allow in your life. The people who lack these qualities don’t deserve any place in your life. This is that simple.
We all deal with challenges, we all need the inspiration to keep going even in the tough times. In these situations, we rely on people who will push us to do better and not give up. Trust me, you will never need any person who will make you feel like a loser or put you down and drain all your energy to continue further.
The basic idea behind choosing the right people to enter our lives is to keep you mentally fit and physically healthy. We are humans, not any machine, we have emotions, feelings, opinions, dreams and all of them need respect and support. We should not give any person the privilege to make us feel down in anyways. Positivity is the key element to do any task. We should get rid of people who spread negativity. Allow people who will actually hear your problems and genuinely think about solving them. People who constantly compare your life to that of others and make you feel inferior in all the ways possible should be thrown out from your life instantly without any second thought.
Surround yourself with people who will make you feel wanted and bring the best of yourself. Before eliminating toxic people in your life, make sure that you are not toxic to yourself. Don’t ever be toxic to your own self, this is the biggest advice one can believe into.
Held your soul with your hand and keep moving. Be independent and if you ever want to depend on someone for any emotional support in the long term, make sure that the person is not toxic and will not create any unwanted toxic baggage in your life.
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