Optimism brings the best of all. Do you think this statement is justified? Know Answer
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Optimism can surely make you stay calm in all situations even if could not make you the best. Human beings are created to be top among all species by God. Yes, it's the sixth sense that makes us different from other species. We can differentiate between good and bad. But sadly, it's this quality that has made us develop a personality trait called ego which demands us to be the best of all. In the process of becoming the best we hurt others, we get hurt. 

This is the point where optimism plays a vital role. When we are confident about ourselves we become positive. We never feel sad for what we lose for we always know we have another chance, after all, I know my potential and will wait for the second chance. This is optimism. When this attitude remains with us we will one day become successful. When we are sure of our second chance we don't have to waste our time plotting for the failure of our counterpart.

Waiting for a second chance becomes trivial and finding ways to obstruct or stop the development of counterpart becomes vital. This absence of optimism has a heavy impact on individuals. Here, I would recollect my college days. I'm from one of the cities of South India. One of my collegemates was the eldest daughter of a pious family. They were a joint family. She was the eldest of the family and the most pampered. She had a lot of attitude issues and one among them was the absence of sanguinity. This prevented her from getting closer with any of the college mates and I should say that actually, she missed the best time of her life, teenage.

Of course, that was a different issue. It so happened that soon after she completed her degree, her parents decided to walk her down the aisle and give her away. That's where the problem started. India is known very much for arranged marriages and so many proposals were brought by her relatives and finally, one was decided by her grandparents and parents. But, unfortunately, that was not the bride's pick. Nevertheless, it was less heard by the elders of the house.

Wedding bells soon rang for the couple. The bride couldn't take it positively that that was her life. Instead, she had a strong thought that that was the choice of her family. The result was, her instincts started peeping into the weaknesses of the groom more than his strength. She had a complaint about everything that was done by him. She never realised that the beginning days of her married life were the basement for the life that lay ahead. Instead, she wasted her time, complaining to everyone that her life was ruined by her parents by finding an incorrect match for her.

Before she should realise that she was spoiling her life and her better half's life too, years of her married life had gone and when she looked back again, she had so many golden opportunities missed. But it was too late. Had she realised at the time of her wedding that she had a good life to live, things would have been quite different. If she had realised the very simple fact of life ,"Take life as it comes," she would not have missed the golden opportunities that crossed her life. Instead of counting her blessings, she was counting her curses. Had she done it otherwise, she would have had so many good things to share about her better half, her grandparents and parents. That is the secret of optimism. 

When it is the attitude of an individual, not to be optimistic, it affects people related to him/her. When many develop such negativity, it becomes the character of a society. It will have an impact on the nation. Today, many countries have grim relationships than a healthy one.  May be optimism needs to be developed more by the human race so that countries remain in peace!

Also, we need to remember that when greed takes up our mind, optimism gets down by itself. Greed makes self stand infront and the very thought 'self' never allows any positivity to get in. Where is the end if we have just complains and nothing to be appreciated? Lets not make this planet such a horrible place to live in. Lets be what we are. 

We can take the rotation of mother earth an example of optimism. Her clockwise rotation is positivity. No matter how much destruction is caused, she continues rotating. If she stops to hurt the person she was hurt by.....!  Unimaginable...So should we be...Take as it comes is optimism. Its time we start counting our blessings instead of our curses. Afterall, its our responsibility to leave some hope in store for our next generation. Lets not corrupt everything.

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